Is a Past-Life playing out in Love?

Have you ever been stuck on someone you just can’t seem to get over? Or found yourself in an on-again, off-again relationship, even though you know it’s not good for you? Maybe you’ve been tangled up in a love triangle and can’t figure out why you can’t break free.

I’ve been there. And for the longest time, I couldn’t understand why I was trapped in this emotional cycle with two men who seemed to have an unbreakable hold on me. That is, until I stumbled across something unexpected – a form of therapy that made me question everything I thought I knew about love and attraction.

During my 30s, I was engaged to Alex*, a kind, steady man who was everything I thought I needed. But every time Sebastian came back into my life, I’d drop Alex without warning and go straight back to Sebastian’s arms. This happened five times in just two years, and each time, Alex took me back, no questions asked.

I’m not proud of how I treated Alex. It was like I turned into a completely different person whenever Sebastian was around. Normally, I’m considerate and respectful of people’s feelings, but with Alex, I was reckless and selfish. I left him heartbroken and confused, and no matter how much I hated myself for it, I just couldn’t resist Sebastian’s pull.

Looking back, it felt like I was under some sort of spell. No matter how toxic things were with Sebastian, I kept going back. It didn’t make any sense – until I tried past-life regression.

I know, it sounds unbelievable. But the experience was nothing short of life-changing. Through hypnosis, I was able to recall memories from previous lives, and what I discovered blew me away: my tangled relationship with Sebastian and Alex didn’t start in this lifetime. It had been playing out for centuries, lifetime after lifetime.

It all started when I was offered a session through my work as a coach. I was sceptical but curious, so I gave it a try. Lying on the floor with my eyes closed, the guide led us through a deep meditation, asking us to imagine walking through a door in our mind’s eye. Suddenly, I was in the Middle Ages, wearing a floor-length dress with long red hair. I was working in a field beside my husband – and when I looked at his face, it was Alex.

Then the scene shifted, and I was standing in a grand hall. There, dressed in fine clothes, was the lord of the castle. When I looked into his eyes, my heart skipped a beat. It was Sebastian. In that lifetime, he was my husband’s lord, a man who could demand anything – even another man’s wife. We were drawn to each other, but we could never truly be together. And then, just like in this lifetime, he disappeared without a word.

It was like watching a film of my own life, but centuries in the past. I was conscious the entire time, aware of my emotions and actions, but also seeing the scenes unfold like an observer. It was so vivid, so real.

I couldn’t stop there. I went back for more sessions and discovered that Sebastian and I had been lovers in several past lives. In one, I was a servant in his house. In another, we were forbidden lovers separated by war or duty. Every time, we were pulled together by this intense, irresistible attraction – only for him to leave me heartbroken when he died or disappeared.

That’s when it all made sense. The magnetic pull I felt for Sebastian in this life was fuelled by centuries of unfinished business and forbidden love. And my connection with Alex was rooted in a bond just as old – one of loyalty and duty.

Once I understood this, I realised I had the power to break the cycle. I ended things with both of them, for good. I didn’t tell Alex about the regression – it wouldn’t have been fair. But I did tell Sebastian, who was surprisingly open-minded. I explained that our connection was real, but it belonged to the past, and this lifetime was about finding closure.

It wasn’t easy letting go. Some days, I still catch myself wondering, “What if?” But the difference now is that I understand the reason behind the pull. Knowing the history behind our connection has freed me from it.

I still hear from Sebastian every now and then. He’ll joke, “I’ve loved you for hundreds of years,” and part of me knows it’s true. But this time, I don’t get drawn back in. This lifetime isn’t about repeating old patterns. It’s about letting go.

If you’re struggling to break free from a relationship that makes no sense, or you’re caught in a cycle you can’t escape, maybe it’s worth considering that the roots of your connection run deeper than this lifetime. I was sceptical, too. But past-life healing helped me understand my present in a way nothing else ever could. And that awareness gave me the strength to finally let go. If you would love to book one too, click here