Are you in a Karmic Relationship?
- February 1, 2023
- Posted by: samsam
- Category: relationships Uncategorized
Have you been in a bad relationship?
Are you questioning whether you are in or have been in a karmic relationship? If your relationship started off really good and then ended in a massively unexpected and painful way, then you yes may be in or have experienced a karmic relationship.
You’re probably familiar with the common phrase: “Karma’s a bitch.” This catchphrase is often used to express that someone who has done you wrong is going to get their comeuppance in a fantastically evil way. Can yu hear my evil chuckle lol!! Karma, as we have already covered, actually refers to the effect a person’s actions has on the rest of their own lives and in some cultures this is actually believed to carry forward into the next life and your next incarnation than this one. So what about a karmic relationship?
Buddhism states that when you are in a karmic relationship, they are some kind of twisted, unhealthy soulmate that you must date in order to make up for mistakes in your past life. These relationships tend to begin full of energy and lust and end painfully. Whatever you believe, here are 10 signs you may be in a karmic relationship.
Signs of a karmic relationship
The thinking behind a karmic relationship is that you’re being punished for something you’ve done in the past. For example, if you cheated on someone without regret, you end up in a relationship where you get cheated on. Karma’s a bitch eh! Whether you believe in karma or not, this sort of thing happening can be a wake-up call to be more aware of how you treat the people you claim to care about.
Here are the telltale signs your relationship is bad news.
1 Intense passion. These types of bonds are filled with electric passion that screams the two of you were meant to be together. What it doesn’t necessarily mean is that the connection between the two of you is healthy. When you’re in a bad, or karmic, relationship it’s this intensity that keeps you from leaving when you should.
2 Obsession. When you are in a karmic relationship, you are obsessed with your mate. You want to know what they’re doing, watching, thinking, and who they’re talking to practically every minute you’re not together. You worry constantly about what they may be doing. Control issues, insecurity and buttons easily pushed are all part of how a karmic relationships pays with your mind and emotions.
3 Negative feelings. Have you ever liked someone so much that you actually felt bad when you were around them? If you’ve experienced this painful scenario don’t be fooled, it isn’t a good thing. If you feel bad whenever you’re around your them physically and mentally then that’s a sign, in any relationship, that it’s time to either fix things or move on.
4 Jealousy. Along with obsession comes another close experience, jealousy. Jealousy comes in karmic relationships when you can’t seem to let go of your fear. Jealousy may seem healthy in small doses, after all it shows you that you do care about the person you are with, but this fear often snowballs into other experiences such as being possessive, neurotic and totally dependent on them for happiness. This takes all the fun out of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be your karmic partner who is the jealous one. This can be difficult to manage in any relationship since it often leads to a control issues.
5 Control. Along with jealousy comes control. You or your partner may use different ways to control each other. This can involve spying on your lover, checking their phone, their social media, or stopping them from socialising with their friends or family. Especially if your family and friends openly disapprove of your partner and in my experiences I would say that if your mate tries to distance or disassociate you from your loved ones, you should walk the other way.
6 Anger. If you were full of anger in a past relationship or experience, karmic teachings claim that your partner in your new relationship will be angry with you—if you believe in what goes around comes around.
7 Gut feeling. If you are in a bad relationship, you probably already know it in your body, mind, and soul. Go with your gut. Rarely is it wrong, yet it’s so hard to follow because the ego does not want us to appear foolish or to go without. If your gut is telling you something about your relationship isn’t right, run in the opposite direction!
8 Physical and emotional abuse. If an act of violence happens once in a relationship, odds are it is going to happen again. This style of a karmic relationship follows with jealousy, obsession, and control. Other forms of abuse may also be present with your partner, such as emotional mind-games and verbal abuse. These are all to make you feel less than your partner so that you stay with them.
9 Substance abuse. Drugs, drinking, and non-stop partying are often signs of being in an abusive karmic relationship. Depending on alcohol and drugs when you are unhappy is often referred to as self-medicating. If you need to be self-medicated to be around your partner, you should take this as a giant red flag.
10 Selfish, selfish, selfish. As I’m sure you know, relationships are all about the give and take. If you claim to be in a serious relationship with your partner yet find yourself unable to give back emotionally you may be in a karmic disaster. Same goes for when your partner can’t be bothered to hear about your day or rub your tired sore feet when you come home from a long, hard day.